"I think that the best work comes out of the necessity to do it, not the desire to do it."

 Happiness is at your feet, if only you are willing to lower your head and look for it.

解读：这是人生规划的关键三连问，盘点现有资源、明确目标，进而知晓需割舍的东西，合理规划人生走向，避免盲目奔忙。

The most important thing is to have a child. Everything else is secondary.