The proper study of psychology is the prediction and control of behavior.

Nobody understands when a woman makes a choice to marry and have children, in one way her life begins, but in another way, it stops. You build a life of details, and you just stop and stay steady, so that your children can move. And when they leave,they take your life of details with them. You are expected to move on again, but you don't remember what it was that moved you, because no one's asked you in so long.Not even yourself.

工作与生活的平衡不是个人问题，而是需要系统性解决的结构性问题。

记忆是一把装满了未来的武器。