当你收到在未来做某事的邀请时，问问自己：如果这件事安排在明天，你会接受吗？这可以筛选掉大部分事情。

含泪问花，花不回答，乱红的花瓣飞过秋千远去。

The defining characteristic of pessimists is that they tend to believe bad events will last a long time, will undermine everything they do, and are their own fault.

The best fertilizer for any farm is the footsteps of its owner.

一言一行，效法古代圣贤，就会道德长进；功名利禄，听任天命安排，就会心意闲适；因果报应，考虑子孙福祸，就会办事公正；口体之事，考虑疾病袭来，就会俭朴节省。