Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.

在家听从父亲的，出嫁则服从丈夫。

真相比小说更加荒诞，因为虚构是在一定逻辑下进行的，而现实往往毫无逻辑可言。