心理学的研究就是生活问题解决机制的研究。
The study of psychology is the study of life's problem-solving mechanisms.
解释：礼仪和敬重是立身处世的基础。
At a restaurant do you order what you know is great， or do you try something new？ Do you make what you know will sell or try something new？ Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met？ The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive， but aim for 1/3.
我坚持我所相信的，不在乎别人怎么想。
做黑人很酷，直到做黑人变得很难。
