最紧密束缚我们的锁链是我们已经打破的那些。

Freedom is not merely the opportunity to do as one pleases; neither is it merely the opportunity to choose between set alternatives. Freedom is, first of all, the chance to formulate the available choices, to argue over them - and then, the opportunity to choose.

《诗经》说：“茂盛的桃树开着鲜艳的花朵，这位姑娘出嫁了，能与婆家和睦相处。”

You can't get mad at anybody else for your own mistakes.