At an early age I learned that people make mistakes, and you have to decide if their mistakes are bigger than your love for them.

你必须熬过一些糟糕的日子才能赢得人生中最美好的日子

The idea that we will make a society where literally everybody is graded, the good at the top, bad at the bottom, exactly done as it should be, is impossible. There are simply too many random factors: accidents, accidents of birth, accidents of things dropping on people's heads, illnesses, etc. We will never get to grade them, never get to grade people as they should.

Death is one of the few things that can be done as easily lying down.