在心理学领域,正常与异常之间的界限往往是模糊和主观的。
In the realm of psychology, the line between normal and abnormal is often blurred and subjective.
读书人要为子孙营造福祉而不是祈求福祉。严谨家规,崇尚俭朴,教导耕田读书,累积陰德,这就是营造福祉。广积土地房屋,拉拢关系争取利益,买卖功名,这就是求福祉。营造福祉的,平淡而长久;祈求福祉的,浓郁却短暂。
In a way, I've got some bad news, particularly to anybody who's come to Oxford from abroad. There's a real problem with snobbery, because sometimes people from outside the U.K. imagine that snobbery is a distinctively U.K. phenomenon, fixated on country houses and titles. The bad news is that's not true. Snobbery is a global phenomenon; we area global organization, this is a global phenomenon. What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you, and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
最好的故事是为读者留出空间的故事。
Don't bend; don't water it down; don't try to make it logical; don't edit your own soul according to the fashion. Rather, follow your most intense obsessions mercilessly.
死者既已安葬,活着的人就不要长久地哭泣,而应该尽快做事,每个人都做自己能做的事,并用来使大家互利。
每一个人的灵魂都是一颗星星。
绝对确定性的假设是每一项科学研究的根本基础。
战略是关于做出选择和权衡;是关于刻意选择与众不同。
I think that the most important thing in life is to be happy and to make other people happy.