唯一无法得到帮助的人是那些责备他人的人。
The only person who cannot be helped is that person who blames others.
I'm just trying to be the best I can be.
圣人成事,依靠的是自身的“埶”,而非向外苛求细察外物。“埶”是专注于自身、由自己掌控的;“察”是分散精力、向外追逐外物细节的。