The spiritual life is not a life of negation, but of affirmation.
【译文】 仲弓问仁。孔子说:“出门时要象会见贵宾一样庄重,建工程时要象举行盛大祭典一样严肃。自己不愿做的,不要强加于人。同事中相处融洽,亲属中和睦友爱。”仲弓说:“我虽不才,愿照此办理。”
The difference between successful people and really successful people is that really successful people say no to almost everything.
最好的决定是在数据和直觉的交汇处做出的。