The things we admire in men, kindness and generosity, openness, honesty, understanding and feeling, are the concomitants of failure in our system. And those traits we detest, sharpness, greed, acquisitiveness, meanness, egotism and self-interest, are the traits of success.

Do you have the time to listen to me whine?

南怀瑾：世间法不空，与般若有挂碍，等于眼中有沙，认生死轮回为实有；出世间法不空，与般若亦有挂碍，等于肉中有刺，认化城为宝所；故有凡夫生死、二乘涅盘的颠倒梦想。

有时候你最害怕的事情就是能让你自由的事情。