I'm not a victim, I'm a survivor.
Difficult circumstances serve as a textbook of life for people.
You can tell more about a person by what he says about others than you can by what others say about him.  
我不是一个会错过太多的女孩,我是一个知道自己想要什么的女人。
Those who dream by day are cognizant of many things which escape those who dream only by night.