说真话的唯一方式就是怀着善意。只有充满爱意的人说的话才能被听见。
And if you take Warren Buffett and watched him with a time clock, I would say half of all the time he spends is sitting on his ass and reading. And a big chunk of the rest of the time is spent talking one on one either on the telephone or personally with highly gifted people whom he trusts and who trust him. In other words, it looks quite academic, all this worldly success.
Every great advance in natural knowledge has involved the absolute rejection of authority.  
The road of excess leads to the palace of wisdom.