You can't control how other people feel, but you can control how you react to them.
Old paint on canvas, as it ages, sometimes becomes transparent. When that happens it is possible, in some pictures, to see the original lines: a tree will show through a woman's dress, a child makes way for a dog, a large boat is no longer on an open sea. That is called pentimento because the painter 'repented,' changed his mind. Perhaps it would be as well to say that the old conception, replaced by a later choice, is a way of seeing and then seeing again.
The wild is a place of constant change. To survive, you have to be ready to adapt.
无论你在哪里处于人生的哪个阶段,如果可以,请拿出你的时间、天赋以及金钱,做你力所能及的事。