To me, happiness is about three things: someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to.
You can‘t reason someone out of a notion that they didn’t reason themselves into. 
【原文】樊迟问知,子曰:“务民之义,敬鬼神而远之,可谓知矣。”问仁,曰:“仁者先难而后获,可谓仁矣。”【译文】樊迟问怎样才是“智”,孔子说:“专心致力于(提倡)老百姓应该遵从的道德,尊敬鬼神但要远离它,就可以说是智了。”樊迟又问怎样才是仁,孔子说:“仁人对难做的事,做在人前面,有收获的结果,他得在人后,这可以说是仁了。”
I don’t care about the haters. I just keep moving forward.
"The magic of reading is that it allows us to live a thousand lives."