你无法回到过去改变开头，但你可以从现在开始改变结局。

I must confess that I never could see any beauty in her. Her face is too thin; her complexion has no brilliancy; and her features are not at all handsome. Her nose wants character; there is nothing marked in its lines. Her teeth are tolerable, but not out of the common way; and as for her eyes, which have sometimes been called so fine, I could never see anything extraordinary in them.

心理学家必须是一个中立的观察者。

I don't listen to what people say. I just go out there and do my best.