The strongest principle of growth lies in human choice.

在空无一物的地方，一切皆有可能。在有建筑的地方，其他可能性都不存在。

我们都只是路过，像雪地上的脚印一样留下自己的痕迹。

And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.