When someone is nasty， rude， hateful， or mean with you， pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.

如果我们一起做梦，就不会分别那么久啦。如果我们在对方的梦中，我们就能一直待在一起了。

最好的领导者是那些能在别人发现自己潜力之前就看到它的人。