"Grief does not change you, Hazel. It reveals you."

过去总是在变化。每当我们回忆某事时，我们都会稍微改变它，直到最终，我们的记忆变成我们告诉自己的故事。

她太怪了，我们无法想象自己与她扯上关系，她的语调令人发噱，来自一个奇怪的地方，我们与她毫无关联。当你认为你与这个人毫无关联时，你便不会嫉妒。越是两个年龄、背景相近的人，越容易陷入嫉妒的苦海，所以千万避免去参加同学会。因为没有比同学，更强烈的参照点了。

I feel like killing everybody every time I go to the arena.

I strongly believe that missionaries make better products. They care more. For a missionary, it's not just about the business. There has to be a business, and the business has to make sense, but that's not why you do it. You do it because you have something meaningful that motivates you.

曾子说：“我每天都要多次提醒自己：工作是否敬业？交友是否守信？知识是否用于实践？”