You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.
建筑是关于人如何将自己置于空间中。时尚是关于你如何将物体放在人身上。
The Moving Finger writes; and, having writ, Moves on: nor all thy Piety nor Wit Shall lure it back to cancel half a Line, Nor all thy Tears wash out a Word of it.