孩子本身就是一个现实，而不仅仅是一个过渡性的存在。
除非一个人爱另一个人，否则他无法完全意识到另一个人的本质。
Data is not the answer, but the beginning of the question.
The best way to predict the future is to create it yourself.
The problem is, if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you'll also, by implication, and in a far more nasty way, believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there. I nother words, your position in life comes to seem not accidental, but merited and deserved. And that makes failure seem much more crushing.
