眼睛瞧不见，心里便会对那人想象出无数的优点。

我想说的是，我们不该放弃，我们对成功的想象，但必须确定那些都是我们自己想要的，我们应该专注于我们自己的目标，确定这目标是我们真正想要的，确定这个梦想蓝图出自自己笔下。因为得不到自己想要的已经够糟糕了，更糟糕的是，在人生旅程的终点，发觉你所追求的从来就不是你真正想要的。

So what I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas, and make sure that we own them; that we are truly the authors of our own ambitions. Because it's bad enough not getting what you want, but it's even worse to have an idea of what it is you want, and find out, at the end of the journey, that it isn't, in fact, what you wanted all along.

阿兰·德波顿

教育就是培养习惯。

叶圣陶

But in this book I wanted to show my roots: the early， bigger missions that shaped me， and the even earlier， smaller moments that steered me。

贝尔·格里尔斯

做事要刀切豆腐，两面光。

杜月笙

我觉得人的脆弱和坚强，都超乎自己的想象。有时，我可能脆弱得一句话就泪流满面；有时，也发现自己咬着牙走了很长的路。人如果能坚定自己内心所想，不攀比，不盲从，不被他人影响，一门心思过好自己的日子，就会快乐许多。

莫泊桑

春至不知湘水深，日暮忘却巴陵道。

陈继儒

只要时刻拂拭自己的内心，让良知不要被人欲遮蔽，就都能成功。