尽量不要成为房间里最聪明的人。如果你是，我建议你邀请更聪明的人……或者找一个不同的房间。

【译文】 司马牛问君子。孔子说：“君子不忧不惧。”问：“不忧不惧，就能叫做君子吗？”孔子说：“问心无愧，何来忧惧？”

The best architecture comes from the synthesis of all the forces that are acting upon it.

I was born with an enormous need for affection, and a terrible need to give it.