You are not the opinion of somebody who doesn't know you.

The best leaders are those who listen, learn, and then lead.

Sometimes the best way to help the poor is to give them cash and let them decide how to spend it.

【译文】 司马牛忧伤地说：“别人都有兄弟，唯独我没有。”子夏说：“我听说过：‘死生有命，富贵在天’。君子敬业而不犯错误，对人恭敬而有礼。四海之内，皆兄弟。君子担心什么没有兄弟？”