What I regret most in my life are failures of kindness.
要在准备好时做出决定,而不是在压力之下。或为了达到个人目的,或因为内部斗争,或因为一些外部需求,其他人总会催促你做出决策。但几乎每次你都可以这么说:“我需要更多的时间来考虑这个问题。我想清楚了再回复你。”即使是在最艰难、最令人不快的情况下,这种策略也非常有效。
We are communal histories, communal books. We are not owned or monogamous in our taste or experience.
真正的文学是那种感动我们、让我们反思并改变我们的文学。
From the deepest desires often come the deadliest hate.
"Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes."
"The truth is not always found in facts, but in the spaces between them."