You can have it all. Just not all at once.
我们应该用结果来衡量成功，而不仅仅是投入。
How often do we tell our own life story? How often do we adjust, embellish, make sly cuts? And the longer life goes on, the fewer are those around to challenge our account, to remind us that our life is not our life, merely the story we have told about our life.