当今天下的士人君子,内心果真想行仁义之道,做上等的贤士,上要符合圣王之道,下要符合国家与百姓的利益。

Love is the answer, and you know that for sure.

The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.