I’d tell men and women in their mid-twenties not to settle for a job or a profession or even a career. Seek a calling. Even if you don’t know what that means, seek it. If you’re following your calling, the fatigue will be easier to bear, the disappointments will be fuel, the highs will be like nothing you’ve ever felt.

爱就是爱，不是爱就不是爱。浅薄的爱根本不算爱。

我们从不如我们看起来那样幸福。