我了解到你无法控制生活中的一切，这没关系。

The opposite of the religious fanatic is not the fanatical atheist but the gentle cynic who cares not whether there is a God or not. The atheist is a religious person. He believes in atheism as though it were a new religion.

环境适应自己性情的人是快乐的，而能使自己的性情适应所有环境的人是更优秀的。