我不关注过去，我关注现在。

I would like to make it clear, in parenthesis, that I do not blame my parents for their point of view. There is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction; the moment you are old enough to take the wheel, responsibility lies with you.

I neither affirm nor deny， but I suspend my judgment.

它提醒我们要谨慎评估成功，不要低估运气的作用。