Twenty years of romance make a woman look like a ruin; but twenty years of marriages make her look like a public building.
尽人事,听天命,心态平和最重要。  
The most important victories are those that come after the hardest defeats.
教师的任务不是灌输事实,而是将学习的主题放在学习者面前,并通过同情、情感、想象和耐心,唤醒学习者对答案和洞察力的不懈追求,这些答案和洞察力能够扩大个人生活。
不受流俗所牵累,不因外物而矫饰,不对人提出苛严的的要求,不背违众人的心情,但愿天下太平无事人人都能糊口养生,自己和他人生存条件能够得到保证也就心满意足,并且以此来剖白自己的心迹。