【释义】：父亲不慈爱，子女就不会孝顺；兄长不友爱，弟弟便不会恭敬。  

I’d rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I’m not.

I quite agree with them that it is not an ennobling experience. Poverty entails fear, and stress, and sometimes depression; it means a thousand petty humiliations and hardships. Climbing out of poverty by your own efforts, that is indeed something on which to pride yourself, but poverty itself is romanticised only by fools.