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Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says: 'I need you because I love you.'
The mother-child relationship is paradoxical and, in a sense, tragic. It requires the most intense love on the mother's side, yet this very love must help the child grow away from the mother, and to become fully independent.
Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties.
Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says: 'I need you because I love you.'