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I don’t think you should spend much time being unhappy about the bad breaks. You get a lot of them, but you also get a lot of good ones. The thing to do is just to maximize your odds of using the good ones and minimizing the effects of the bad ones.
I think that one should recognize reality even when one doesn’t like it; indeed, especially when one doesn’t like it.
Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.